You are so disgusting for acting this way toward someone even if she did so what thats between her and him. Not for you to be a disgusting person show some compassion
Depending on the type of relationship you had or have it is rude. I work a very demanding job. Let's face it most of us have our phones glued to us. If 8 hours go by yes it's cause for concern. I would personally not want to cause my partner stress and insecurities of am I hurt or am I doing something that I am trying to hide. I also do not want to feel that way from my partner not responding back. There are times that both of us might not respond for hours however we both make sure to communicate what we are doing for the day out of respect to other person time and feelings. The short of it no I do not believe it is rude for you to bring it up and set boundaries that you both can agree to. Express how it makes you feel. If you can not accept or he can not accept the boundaries then maybe it's not ment to be.
Pa it has been a relaship of 5 years short version of the events is that the relationship has been toxic but great. A push pull on both ends. When my parents is feeling scared and insecure. They react in ways that are abusive. We had an argument last week that become physically abusive. Throwing things and breaking stuff. I left for a week. During that week things heated up to where my partner was threating to Black mail me and bring harm to me. When I came back home we talked and agreed that is unhealthy and not okay. That we both would seek professional help. I know from an out side point of view most would say you crazy and need to separate. I can be more detail if needed I would rather do that in a private message
Couples' therapy is generally not recommended for abusive relationships. And make no mistake, that's exactly what this is. I don't think you're crazy but I do think you're at serious risk of both emotional and physical harm should you decide to stay. Since you've already been granted the order, you can either a) wait until the final hearing, attend it and ask that it be dropped; or b) go to the clerk of the court where the order was filed and ask how to dismiss it. The exact process varies by county. Be prepared to explain to a judge why the order was necessary then but isn't now. I strongly recommend that before making a decision, you contact your
What happens if I do not attend the final hearing. Is there a negative impact on me or partner? Also when I do ask for a withdrawal why would the judge give it on the fact that I want to work through our issues. I do agree that it is a high risk of abuse to contunie to work through this.
I have every time I do that's when the black mail sets in. It has gotten to the point that I spent the weekend in jail. All charges are dropped, and they sealed the record within 24hours. She claims if I don't stay she will get me in trouble again call my work, break my stuff ect... I would leave this second if I knew that threats have no effect on me. There is also after being told so many times that I suck I am fat pice of shit cheater lier ect.. I start to belive I am one. I do admit I have over reacted at times. I have lied to her. I am scared. She knows I am unhappy. That I don't see this working. I just want to part ways In a civil way and take some time to find myself I am so tired of feeling not good enough like I am a care taker.
she's a hoe so she's definitely been used & ran through
You are so disgusting for acting this way toward someone even if she did so what thats between her and him. Not for you to be a disgusting person show some compassion
Depending on the type of relationship you had or have it is rude. I work a very demanding job. Let's face it most of us have our phones glued to us. If 8 hours go by yes it's cause for concern. I would personally not want to cause my partner stress and insecurities of am I hurt or am I doing something that I am trying to hide. I also do not want to feel that way from my partner not responding back. There are times that both of us might not respond for hours however we both make sure to communicate what we are doing for the day out of respect to other person time and feelings. The short of it no I do not believe it is rude for you to bring it up and set boundaries that you both can agree to. Express how it makes you feel. If you can not accept or he can not accept the boundaries then maybe it's not ment to be.
I am in let's push this to the starts
I am in
Where are you located? What happened that caused you to petition for a PFA in the first place? What changed that has made you want to drop it?
Pa it has been a relaship of 5 years short version of the events is that the relationship has been toxic but great. A push pull on both ends. When my parents is feeling scared and insecure. They react in ways that are abusive. We had an argument last week that become physically abusive. Throwing things and breaking stuff. I left for a week. During that week things heated up to where my partner was threating to Black mail me and bring harm to me. When I came back home we talked and agreed that is unhealthy and not okay. That we both would seek professional help. I know from an out side point of view most would say you crazy and need to separate. I can be more detail if needed I would rather do that in a private message
Couples' therapy is generally not recommended for abusive relationships. And make no mistake, that's exactly what this is. I don't think you're crazy but I do think you're at serious risk of both emotional and physical harm should you decide to stay. Since you've already been granted the order, you can either a) wait until the final hearing, attend it and ask that it be dropped; or b) go to the clerk of the court where the order was filed and ask how to dismiss it. The exact process varies by county. Be prepared to explain to a judge why the order was necessary then but isn't now. I strongly recommend that before making a decision, you contact your
What happens if I do not attend the final hearing. Is there a negative impact on me or partner? Also when I do ask for a withdrawal why would the judge give it on the fact that I want to work through our issues. I do agree that it is a high risk of abuse to contunie to work through this.
I have every time I do that's when the black mail sets in. It has gotten to the point that I spent the weekend in jail. All charges are dropped, and they sealed the record within 24hours. She claims if I don't stay she will get me in trouble again call my work, break my stuff ect... I would leave this second if I knew that threats have no effect on me. There is also after being told so many times that I suck I am fat pice of shit cheater lier ect.. I start to belive I am one. I do admit I have over reacted at times. I have lied to her. I am scared. She knows I am unhappy. That I don't see this working. I just want to part ways In a civil way and take some time to find myself I am so tired of feeling not good enough like I am a care taker.
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